我有点迷茫，真的不想我女儿读大学了。

百变

这些天看到几个新闻：425名博士去抢中石油的一个新聘岗位。博士生去当城管。油校招一个新机制办事员，20多名硕士，60多位本科毕业生去抢。大家说吧，这些书读来干 ... https://weibo.com/ttarticle/p/show?id=2309405100850430476315
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化北80后

hebooy 发表于 2024-11-17 12:36
女孩子去读大学不是挺好的吗? 除非你经济真的很困难，否则我想不明白为何不让你女儿去读。

可能只能考上一些民办的高价学校，甚至是高价的大专，而且自己经济也一般般，所以…。

吓一跳

疯狂天涯海角 发表于 2024-11-19 11:32
不让去读，就连你说的新闻上面的工作的竞争资格都失去，只能做更底层的工作。

我的儿女不去考公务员，做医生，当教授，也未必比城管和街道办低级。

吓一跳

为什么一定要去体制内当公务员？
我女儿今年才上的大学，入学10天就被选为“国医班”，全级20人。预期八年后的工作稳定，收入稳定，然后再嫁一个喜欢她的、她喜欢的男孩，不是很好吗？生个女儿，一定要去当城管或街道办，去被上级作践，喊去陪酒？

scriptaaabbb

个人觉得，考得上国内前40%的学校或者前40%较好的专业适合读大学，有钱人随意。

穷困家庭且又考不上好的大学的就没必要上了，因为在现在这个时代，读书的付出跟回报不成正比，一个大学普通本科毕业可能回茂名工作也就3k,还没你父辈赚的多。

现在教育已经是被培养成一门教育产业经济，解决众多师生就业问题，带动学校周边一系列产业(餐饮、酒店...)。从幼儿园，每期的学费、中小学的补课费、校外培训费、资料费、兴趣班、辅导班、大学的学费、大学住宿费等等，都在汲取你父辈的血液，当然，这些都不能怪别人，要怪只能怪父辈的读书出人头地的观念作祟。

scriptaaabbb

子陵 发表于 2024-11-17 21:41
读了，你还有一丝机会去争一争，不读的话，是一点机会没有的。

你这种言论像是买彩票，但是却没见你经常去买彩票。

买了彩票才有一丝丝的机会中奖，不买的话，是一点中奖的机会都没有。

暖夏

那你不读能干嘛？有好出路可以不读的呀

1365014

读不读都可以跑美团快递

疯狂天涯海角

不让去读，就连你说的新闻上面的工作的竞争资格都失去，只能做更底层的工作。

茂名阿生

牵一发而动全身，账不是看一时的

潇湘仍夜雨

要是家里有矿怎么都好说，要是普通人家，那你就是被忽悠瘸了。

浮生过客

子陵 发表于 2024-11-17 21:41
读了，你还有一丝机会去争一争，不读的话，是一点机会没有的。

生死由命，富贵在天，如果根基雄厚，读与不读没有什么关系，比如马斯克自己雇老师教育子女，不读大学反而更好。

万一可以呢？

女孩子更应该多读书。

西城建言

人才，读大学不单是为了工作，大学是一个很好的过程，当然你穷到开不了饭就另说，穷到开不了饭，孩子想读，也给她读叫她自己申请贷款、平时多做兼职赚生活费